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We live in one world and, according to the teachings of Jesus Christ, every world citizen is my neighbour. That means I am to be concerned about every one. Not only concerned, but to love them and to want the very best for them. So, in this blog, I write about neighbours and social issues, often by bringing in someone else's writing and then commenting on it from my Christian point of few.
Showing posts with label Vancouver Sun. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Vancouver Sun. Show all posts
Saturday, 25 March 2017
Post 158—Is Prime Minister Trudeau Funding Islamic Extremism?
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Wednesday, 1 March 2017
Post 152—A Place for Spanking
I hope you don’t get tired of my apologies
and my changes in direction or even promises not kept—which is not the same in
my mind about breaking promises. The
document that I thought I would discuss in follow up from the last post is not
what I expected it to be. So, we will let it go and do something else today. However,
in case you’re curious, here’s URL that deals with issues somewhat related to
that of Post 151--
Yes, something else, but not something
completely different. While the last post talked about shooting and murdering,
this post will talk about spanking. To some people that’s in the same class as
shooting and murder—it’s all doing violence to people. Some time ago a friend of mine, Mark
Penninga, the Executive Director of the Association for Reformed Political
Action (ARPA) Canada published an opinion piece in the Vancouver Sun under the title”Time and Place for Spanking.” I’ve
written about this issue before, because I believe when a government gets
involved in ordinary family affairs, it is intrusive and goes far beyond its
legitimate reach. Government and family
exist in different spheres, each of which have their own laws and protocols.
Governments may only interfere in families when there is evidence of families
being highly dysfunctional. To some people, spanking, any kind of spanking, no
matter its severity, becomes the government’s business, for its mandate is to
protect its citizens, even infants, from violence, including parental violence.
Penninga’s main point is that the term
spanking covers a broad range of meaning, ranging from the gently corrective to
that of the cruel and abusive. Attempts to have government make every form of
spanking illegal in order to prevent the cruel type, has the opposite
effect. Then he demonstrates his point at
length, all of which you can read yourself by turning to the articles’ URL (see
below). One study, for example, that covered 50 years and examined 26 other
studies concluded, “Whether physical punishment compared favorably
or unfavorably with other tactics depended on the type of physical punishment.”
The study looked at what the researchers called an “optimal” type of physical
discipline — conditional spanking—and upheld it as legitimate.
Penninga wrote:
Sweden in 1979 became the first
nation to outlaw all physical discipline. Since then, criminal charges for
physical child abuse by relatives against children under age seven increased by
489 per cent between 1981 and 1994. There was also a shocking 519-per-cent
increase in criminal assaults by children under 15 against children aged 7-14.
Perhaps most devastating, 46-60 per cent of cases investigated under Sweden’s
law result in children being removed from homes. About 22,000 Swedish children
were removed from homes in 1981, compared with 1,900 in Germany, 710 in
Denmark, 552 in Finland, and 163 in Norway.
Consider
the 2010 case of a mother and father from Karlstad, Sweden, jailed for nine
months and ordered to pay 25,000 kronor ($11,000) to three of their children
who were spanked. More damaging than the jail and fines, all four of their
children were removed from their home. Although the court concluded that the
parents “had a loving and caring relationship to their children,” apparently
spanking is serious enough to merit such an extreme sentence.
And then he concluded,
Parents
will have a variety of opinions about the merits of physical discipline. But
problems arise when the state assumes the role of parent. The role of the state
is limited to preserving an orderly society and punishing wrongdoers (including
child There is much that the state can do to promote a society in which
children are safe and families can flourish. Banning physical discipline will
achieve neither.
Parents will
have a variety of opinions about the merits of physical discipline. But
problems arise when the state assumes the role of parent. The role of the state
is limited to preserving an orderly society and punishing wrongdoers (including
child abusers), so that the other institutions of society can flourish. The
institution of the family is an independent part of civil society accountable
directly to God (although the state increasingly understands itself to be a god
it seems). Parents are entrusted with the authority to lovingly raise their
children and the state may only interfere in exceptional circumstances, such as
real child abuse.
There is much
that the state can do to promote a society in which children are safe and
families can flourish. Banning physical discipline will achieve neither. So far my
friend Penninga.
The Vancouver Sun published an editorial
supporting Penninga’s main argument, while the highest court of the land agreed
as well, but not everyone did, as you can see on the last of the three websites
that appear below. As to myself, I am the product of a tradition of occasional
reasonable spanking when deserved and emerged a humane, highly educated and
successful person from a peasant background without any spanking baggage to
sour my life. The same holds true for all 9 of my siblings as well as for the
11 and 9 siblings of my father and mother respectively. As the Bible puts it, “Spare the rod and
spoil the child.” That’s ancient wisdom that liberals tend to deny, often
having contempt for the past and its ways.
So, here are three URLs for you to check out,
with the third one vigorously rejecting the point of this post.
See also www.keep43.can for supporting arguments.
See
www.nospank.net for opposing view.
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Wednesday, 2 March 2016
Post 96—Farewell to Shelley Fralic
In contrast to Post 95, this is a shorty.
Possibly the shortest of all so far. It
is a farewell letter to Shelley Fralic, a columnist with the Vancouver Sun, who has retired.
My Dear Shelley
These days we don't often start
letters with "Dear....," especially not a married man to a woman
married to someone else. But today, for this one very special occasion, I
cannot resist it.
I was shocked when I first
learned of your retirement. Will there still be life after Shelley Fralic in my
hands in the morning along with my cup of tea--cup of coffee in the case of my
wife. Well, yes, there will be, but it will not be an
improved life.
Your final column is so
beautifully written, so full of love for the Sun and its readers, so emotional.
So aware also of the responsibility of a journalist not only but also of her
influence and power. I have often said that the Sun is a more effective
opposition than any official opposition party, partially because she is not
paid to oppose. It opposes when it has to, when it is just the right thing to
do. And you have been an active player in that role.
So, Shelley, thank you and good
bye. I pray for rich, rewarding and grandchildren-filled years ahead for
you. I have been in that phase of life for some fifteen years now and
believe me, it is indeed the best part of your life in spite of its inevitable
dead end. I will archive your last column, if only to keep me attuned to the
responsibility of a writer, of which I am one.
I think I will make this letter
public by putting it on my blog under the title, "Farewell to Shelley
Fralic."
Jan/John H. Boer
West End, Vancouver
Thursday, 30 July 2015
Blog 60--Contradictions and Inconsistencies: The Stuff of Life
I’ve been gone for a week, camping
with daughter Cynthia and her family and some other friends. The group was
great for socialization and the river-side facility was great—and free for us! But in the latter half of July, you can
expect warm weather, not so cold that you shiver and have to put on layer upon
layer, especially when there is a camp fire ban due to extreme drought. We broke
up camp and returned disappointed to the coast at Kent,
near Seattle.
But there the heat was so intense that camping was just as uncomfortable. We
broke up camp again and returned home in Vancouver,
disappointed, not to say disgusted. All of which is to explain the extra long
time between posts.
Blog 59 is full of contradictions and
inconsistencies. I know these terms are not exactly synonyms, but I will kind
of use them as such in this blog. Notice how imprecise that last sentence
is? When I wrote this post, it was
Monday morning and I didn’t feel like forcing too much precision on myself. So
our topic for today is just right—for me and, I hope you can live with it.
It happens quite frequently that my
wife (Fran) and I catch each other in contradictions, the term now including
inconsistencies as well. We usually acknowledge it, but the conversation often
leans toward a negative attitude towards such things. It seems more virtuous to
be consistent, even though as years have taken their toll, we are becoming
increasingly tolerant of contradiction. Is that natural with age? Or is it the effect of post-
modernism on us?
That we’re veering away from the demands of strict logic?
At any rate, the previous blog was
full of it. I agree and disagree with Pete McMartin; same for the VS editorial. And then I reject both of
their approaches for not going to the heart of the matter. I was fully aware of
it and was good for letting it all stand. Sloppy thinking could be another
reason I could add to the above paragraph. Combining “sloppy thinking” with
“reason” is surely an example of the very thing I am talking about.
I am a graduate of Calvin Theological
Seminary (CTS) in Grand Rapids (MI, USA).
It is a good seminary and I am proud of having graduated there (1965). I have
given quite a detailed report on my three years there in our memoirs (Every Square Inch: A Missionary Memoir, vol.
1, chapter 12-- <www.Social Theology. com >. Once there,turn to the first
entry on the Boeriana page.)
In terms of our subject for today, I
wrote about how bored I would occasionally be in Systematic Theology (ST)
classes. Systems are usually logically coherent entities. So, in these ST
lectures the point was to fit the Bible and theology into neat logically
consistent boxes. The result gave a static feeling. Everything stood still.
Even God came out as a static being that is fully consistent with Himself,
including even that most “illogical” construct of the Trinity. Sometimes I
would get so tired of it, I would play hooky for a few days and spend my time
reading other theologians. I especially liked the writings of professor Gerrit
Berkouwer of the Free University of Amsterdam
for the contrast between him and my CTS profs precisely because Berkhouwer did
not construct such tight logical boxes; he was more open.
Neither does God fit into our logical
boxes. The profs did acknowledge that
when it came to issues of election/reprobation vs human responsibility. They
had inherited that difficult conundrum from childhood and had grown up being
comfortable with it. But somehow that mostly static view of God did not cut it
for me. Of course, I am
talking the 1960s. I suspect that the atmosphere at CTS has changed like
everything else in this world.
The emphasis at that time at least was on a God who
tolerates only truth, truth being at least partially defined as logically
consistent statements and intolerance for what we might call “gray” statements over
against the plain black and white stuff.
I loved and still love the stories in the Bible that challenge that kind
of static God in favour of a more fluid one. There is the story of the midwives
who lied to Pharaoh in order to save the baby boys of the Israelites, but whom
God blessed because of their courage (Exodus 1:15-22). Then there is the story
of Samuel’s anointing David to be the next king. Samuel objected to God that
Saul, the current king, would kill him for what amounted to a coup. Then God
instructed Samuel to give a false reason for his coming to David’s town (I
Samuel 16:1-3). God is described as repenting or regretting things He had done
(Genesis 6:6-7; Exodus 32:14; Judges 2:18; I Samuel 15:11, etc.). At the same
time, we also read in I Samuel 15:29 that God “does not lie or change His mind;
for He is not a man that He should change His mind.” So, a very fluid picture
of God under certain circumstances, though still faithful and trustworthy with
respect to His people.
So, I do not apologize for the
occasional contradiction in my own life, including those in Blog 59.
The French philosopher Rene Descartes
(1596-1650) coined the famous Latin phrase “Cogito, ergo sum,” meaning, “I
think; therefore I am.” It expressed the
idea current among philosophers at that time—and still for some ordinary folk
even today—that the essence of a human being lay in his rationality, his mind.
If you know something—and that means you are thinking, you have a mind-- well,
then you must be a human being. Something like the touristy trend of thought,
“It’s three p.m.; hence this must be Victoria.”
Taking off from there and following a radically dangerous step into the almost
forgotten country of Latin, I would like to suggest, “Contradicio; ergo sum,”
hopefully meaning something like “I contradict; therefore I am.” It does not
define my essence, but it does make me feel just a bit more comfortable. At
least, it gives me a vague permission to contradict myself—of sorts.
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